Paris Tailor
Intuitive Life Coach
Human Design: Manifesting Generator 4/6
Address: Digital Nomad
Favorite Hobby: Introverting as hard as I can
Obsessions:
Mushroom coffee, Taylor Swift, jadeite cups, traveling, unicorns, FRIENDS, thunderstorms, the perfect black dress, my espresso machine, my love: Kevin, weiner dogs, anything with glitter on it, voice memos with best friends, walking to the coffee shop, my community, blaring Defying Gravity in the shower, timeline healing, shortcuts to mastery, homemade whipped cream, evenings in Roma, my hot water bottle, writing, yoga, pilates, singing, and frozen chocolate chips.
I learned to let grief and joy coexist.
That's when I made magic sh*t happen.
I've always been obsessed with personal development. But it wasn't until my own life demanded evolution that I really understood what it meant to radically transform your life. I started coaching people on nutrition, then moved to grief counseling which transitioned into empowerment lessons. Now as an Intuitive Coach I help women become the healthiest and wealthiest versions of themselves. We make magic sh*t happen.
It all started when I decided to turn my mourning grief into Mourning Glory.
When I was 21, my Mom lost her battle to cancer and my entire life flipped upside down. She straight up peaced out and my whole world shattered. The grief was pure agony. The kind of physical, emotional, and soul-deep pain that reshapes everything you thought you knew. If you’ve gone through a major change in your life, losing a loved one or a pet, getting divorced, going no contact, transitioning to a new identity, you know how life-altering that severance from the past can be.
After a few sleepless years, countless ER visits for extreme "phantom" pains, and a mess of disordered eating later, I was desperate to feel better, (and stop the sleep paralysis) so I threw myself into learning: grief healing, nutrition, holistic wellness, and any alternative solutions I could get my paws on. Slowly, I really processed my pain and started experiencing life and joy again. I even began to coach people through their own acute grief.
Though I was proud of how I was managing my trauma (for myself, friends and clients), I felt stuck in every other area of my life:
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My corporate career was stagnant and stale despite my ambition.
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My relationships felt like a roller coaster of highs and lows.
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I kept being told to ‘just go for the dream’—but I felt paralyzed by fear and didn't even know what my dream was
Therapy was bland. And the six-thousand dollar performance coach wasn't all that spicy either.
I thought: if someone can just give me the GD roadmap I will follow it!
Then, in the midst of spending all my savings hoping someone would give me the answer to life, I had a vision of my Mom (still dead at the time). And let me tell you, I was triggered AF. Seeing her, had to mean something but I didn't know what. To paraphrase Princess Mia, "As if I wasn't enough of a freak already, let's add a ghost mom!" My only outlet was crying alone, journaling in circles, and cuddling with Maggie (the princess you see on my shoulder in that photo).
A few months later, a woman entered my life and flipped my entire perspective. She had posted on the socials about timeline healing with a loved one she had lost, who was on the other side, and it was like I struck gold. I had no idea what timeline healing was but I knew I needed it.
At the time, I wouldn’t have used the word disempowered, but that’s exactly what I was. My nervous system was shot, I felt frozen. The veil to the other side had dropped before me and I knew it was time for some serious healing. I believed that I had truly conquered my grief but I had only scratched the surface of my crappy belief system. I thought life was meant to be hard, that suffering was the default, that success followed rigid structures and I wasn't smart enough to figure them out! But Kristen (my newfound spiritual teacher and coach) introduced me to soul-level Intuitive Coaching—and everything changed.
“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”
Deborah Ellyn 1959-2015
Favorite Flower: The Morning Glory
Then I began to understand the
Misery-to-Magic pipeline
When I first started working with my coach, we focused on the standard areas: grief healing, career growth, balancing chakras, how to communicate with the departed. Ya know- normal stuff. I dove in head first and week after week, month after month, I was making radical shifts in my internal beliefs. And let me tell you, it was the MOST FUN I ever had transforming. Because bruh, listen, you don’t know what it feels like to be elated until you’re seeing angel numbers on the billboards, talking to your higher self, and getting the transformation strategy roadmap from your dead mom. I promise I am a normal person. I have a 401k and everything. But I am also a crunchy high priestess, so buckle up!
Anyways, I started to manifest some cool stuff!!
The first real taste of manifesting was when my dream job popped up out of nowhere. I didn’t even know the job EXISTED, let alone at MY OWN COMPANY. After six years of stagnation, I applied, crushed the interviews, and landed the job. The best part: my finances shifted. Not only was my salary better, but I was aligning with random bursts of additional income -- and not just from my job: raises, bonuses, refunds, gifts, discounts. For the first time, I felt in control of my money because I was in control of my money beliefs.
And then things really started to change. I was a firefly glowing like crazy but trapped in a jar. As I stood more confidently in my worth, I saw where I had been shrinking, where I had been scared to say how I really felt and what I really wanted: romance, enchantment, spirituality, personal evolution and a wildly magical life.
The more empowered I became, the more I integrated with my higher-self, (who I fondly called Lavender Sky), I saw the misalignment in my environment, community, relationships, path and life overall.
But let me be clear: Within radical empowerment, there was extreme discomfort. The misalignments grew loud and unbearable.
No one really tells you that true empowerment also comes with grief. And if you're only learning this now - it's going to be ok. Because as my best friend always reminds me “pressure makes diamonds.” (Hi, Roommate!)
Fast forward, to me sobbing in a coffee shop parking lot not knowing where I was going to live, using a maxi pad to wipe my tears. Still in my empowerment era!!!! But also in my IDK WTF I am doing era. I left a marriage. A home. A dog that I believed was my soul daughter. I had the perfect apartment lined up but it felt wrong. My work was pushing 60-80 hour weeks. I had no local community. My entire identity changed nearly overnight and there was a lot of challenges stacking up. But because of all the internal work I was doing, I knew that enchantment was coming. Success was inevitable. I had no idea HOW. But I knew it was coming. It had to.
My previous chapter with grief taught me all about the duality of loss and love. So, I let the complexities exist—the pain of letting go and the belief that something greater was coming. And it did.
Within 6 months of leaving my old life behind, I co-conspired with the universe VERY HARD and my dream life began to unfold.
✨ I became a digital nomad, traveling to some of my bucket list destinations.
✨ I radically changed my financial situation for the better.
✨ I manifested my soulmate (Hi, my love!)
✨ I called in an aligned, SOUL sister community.
✨ I was handed the keys to my dream landing pads.
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And these are just some of the bigger milestones. I manifest magic, and "holy sh*t I can't believe that just happened" synchronicities all the time.
The best part is, the most dramatic thing that changed was my belief system. I didn’t have 100k followers on social media. I wasn’t actually using my practice for additional income yet. But I had a coach who believed in me, who showed me how to be brave and taught me everything about making energetic leaps and bounds in the direction of my best self. (Kristen - I owe you everything.)
I was manifesting greatness because I was matching the vibration of my dreams, unapologetically (Alexa, play Reputation, Taylor's Version).
I was using practical wisdom, grief-coping mechanisms, and quantum theory to take control of my reality.
And now? I teach others how to do the same—to shine so bright that they naturally start to collapse time and step into their highest, most expanded selves. So, grab a glass of your favorite iced chaga coffee (with grass-fed milk) and let’s get to work!!!
It looked like I was destined for mediocrity. But my soul couldn't stand it.
So, I changed my beliefs and therefore changed my life.
My beliefs started from the bottom:
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😕 Life is hard.
😕 Grief will always get in the way.
😕 I am not impressive or smart enough to be financially independent.
😕 I am fine on this path because it's safe.
😕 I am fine with low lows because the highs are high.
😕 I am never going to get my Pinterest board life because manifesting requires too much meditation and effort.
😕 If I was prettier, stronger, more intelligent, less damaged, then I would get the love and life I crave.
😕 I am fine faking that I am fine.
😕 Success is linear and grueling.
And now they're here:
🥰 Life is enchanting.
🥰 I am capable of holding space for all emotions.
🥰 I am comfortable being uncomfortable.
🥰 I am fine with being misunderstood while chasing my dream life (even though it still hurts sometimes!)
🥰 I manifest with ease and intentionality.
🥰 I have the wisdom to change lives.
🥰 I am constantly evolving into my higher self and am a match for soulful community and an adventurous life.
🥰 Manifesting miracles is fun and standard!
🥰 My success is inevitable and being multi-passionate is my superpower!